How to FIGHT like an MVP

Fight like and MVP

Learning to fight like an MVP requires that you use the MVP tool: Mirror-Validate-Hope. To mirror, you put you own thoughts on hold and start with, “what I heard you say…” To validate, you listen for your mate’s point of view and value what they say even if you don’t agree. The P is for Hope – this is where you express your hope for renewing your connection.

Marriage Is Hard

Marriage Is Hard

If I’m being honest, and I am honest to a fault, my marriage is hard right now. Jim and I got married ten years ago and enjoyed an extended five-year honeymoon. Utter, unrealistic bliss! My daughters found us sickening! I think God knew we’d need a season of bliss to look back on because He knows our wounds and they are deep. Deep wounds make it easy to blame and give up. DON’T.