I had given up on my marriage and on myself. This was a last hope and my husband was willing but not truly sold on the idea. We were lost.In four days I found myself and the issues that kept me from being a happy person and a loving wife. I learned about personal pain and the walls I had built making it impossible to have a healthy relationship. My husband was equally successful in identifying and releasing past hurts. We learned to forgive the past and focus on the future and best, fell in-love again in a healthy a stronger way. We disagree yet it will not break us. We can argue but have tools to fight fair and make the conflict not only shorter but effective when using communication skills we lacked. Best, after a short time our children can sense a change and their own stress is now gone.Happy is a real word everyday finally.